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You are here: Home / General / When Life Gets Funky

When Life Gets Funky

March 8, 2011 by FutureExpat

sad woman in a funkFrom time to time, some aspect of life seems overwhelming. Most recently, I’ve gotten that feeling of overwhelm from trying to simultaneously plan our trip to Panama while putting the finishing touches on the house in order to list it for sale.

Add a few go-rounds with well meaning relatives who don’t have a clue about what I’m doing — but offer all sorts of unsolicited advice about it — and I’ve been in a downright funk.

How do you break out of a funk once its well and truly established?

Here are a few things that help me:

  • Exercise. It’s amazing how much better I feel after a few laps in the pool or other activity. Getting outdoors helps, too, if the sun is shining.
  • Hang out with pets or kids. It helps to spend time with affectionate creatures who aren’t judging me.
  • Tackle some routine task I’ve been putting off — cleaning out a drawer or a cupboard, organizing something, washing curtains. . . When I’m done I feel like I’ve accomplished something.
  • Make a list.
  • Go out to lunch with a friend.
  • Since I’m glued to the computer most of the day, walking away from it often helps. Sitting somewhere pleasant with a cup of coffee and a book that I’m reviewing makes a nice break but still allows me to be productive.
  • Take a look at what I’ve been eating or drinking for the past few days. Sometimes a funk is the result of poor food choices!
  • Listen to some good music.
  • Take some time off.
  • Get some sleep.

If you’re still in a funk after a few days, you may need to indulge in a little self-analysis.

If you write down your goals, hopes or dreams, review them. Figure out what is the very next thing to do that will move you closer to them, and do it.

If you’re upset about a personal interaction, expat coach Anne Egros recommends writing down your feelings, then forgetting about them for a day or so.

When you’re not emotionally upset any more, go back and look at what you’ve written. For each sentence where you felt hurt or under attack, decide whether it’s true or just your emotional interpretation. For example, did they really say your plan to move overseas was stupid, or did they say something you interpreted that way?

Publishing consultant Susan Daffron suggests bouncing ideas off someone else if you feel as if you’re wasting your time and can’t decide what to do next.

So, what do you do to break out of a funk?

Photo by pennajoe123 on flickr

Filed Under: General, Prepping the Move Tagged With: expat, funk, stuck, unstuck

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  1. Anne Egros says

    March 8, 2011 at 1:45 pm

    Thanks Susana for the mention, hope it helped.

    There is so much at stake and so many unknown parameters being overwhelmed is not a surprise yet it is still painful ! I have the same kind of funk in my life right now and I am opting for your strategies: Get OUT have a lunch with a friend and spend less time on your PC. Another article I shared on Twitter today recommend to stop watching bright screens at least 1 hour before going to bed . The scientific reason is that light decreases the production of melatonin a hormone that set your intern clock: so no more Tweets, FB and other blogging after 10 PM. According to other studies, the quality of sleep is better if you go to bed before 11pm. Better sleep=better mood !
    Have nice dreams !

    • FutureExpat says

      March 8, 2011 at 5:12 pm

      Thanks, Anne! Good luck with your funk as well. 🙂

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