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Change = Risk + Ambiguity

hot air balloons over the SerengetiAny big change involves some risk — but not changing is risky, too! Just ask the company that used to make vinyl records, or the transportation firm that thought those new-fangled horseless carriages were just a fad.

Some people have a high risk tolerance. Would you be comfortable packing a few changes of clothes into a backpack and setting out for parts unknown? I wouldn’t — but some people do just that.

Then there are those who have to plan every tiny detail. In the end, they don’t go anywhere because they’re too frightened of the unexpected.

Fortunately, most of us fall somewhere in the middle.

How can you balance the adventure/risk component of moving overseas against planning and safety?

For starters, you need to know yourself pretty well. . .

Know Your Risk Tolerance

Sometimes it’s obvious. If you thrill to jumping out of an airplane, can’t wait to try that really big bungee jump or stake your entire life savings on one card in a Texas Hold ‘Em poker game, you have a high tolerance for risk. You’d probably be comfortable with the backpack-heading out scenario, so this article’s really not for you.

Conversely, if you wouldn’t dream of stepping outside to go to the mailbox without checking the weather first and putting your extra money into a bank CD is the only “investment” you’ll consider, you’re very risk averse. This article probably isn’t for you either.

But if you’re one of the majority in between those two extremes, you need to figure out how much risk you’re willing to take, how much planning you’ll do to minimize the risk, and how much ambiguity you’re able to tolerate. What kind of expat will you be?

You can start with some personality tests. There are plenty available online — here’s a list of the more common tests. There are also tests to specifically measure risk taking. You’ll find quite a few if you Google “personality test risk taker.”

How Well Do You Plan?

Even the jumper-out-of-airplanes plans ahead to minimize risk by strapping on a parachute (or sometimes two!).

In the movie One Fine Day, Michelle Pfeiffer’s character carries a purse that seems equipped for any possible eventuality — even creating superhero costumes for the kids on the spur of the moment. “Where do you get a bag like that?” George Clooney asks her.

Easy. She’s a super-planner. I have a friend like that. Need a bandaid? Safety pin? Spare anything? She’ll have it with her. Super-planners know exactly how much they spend on everything and what their savings or investment account balance is at any moment.

At the other end of the spectrum is the person who can’t plan what route to drive to the supermarket.

If you’re going to become an expat, planning is a necessity.

Are You Comfortable with Ambiguity?

Change and ambiguity go hand in hand, and the bigger the change, the greater the uncertainty. Are you an “everything is either black or white” person, or are you comfortable with shades of gray?

Use Your Past Experience

If you’ve moved before — and most of us have — you have some personal history to help you figure out how you’ll handle an overseas move.

Your experience with any major life change can be put to good use, in fact.

Think about some of your biggest life changes. They might include

  • moving
  • graduation
  • applying for/choosing a college
  • entering the job market
  • changing jobs
  • overseas travel
  • marriage
  • having kids
  • divorce
  • changing careers
  • going back to school as an adult

Chances are, none of those events happened by accident.

Think about how you felt before, during and after any of these life-changing events. Happy? Excited? Overwhelmed? Scared? Angry?

What did you do to tone down the excitement levels, reduce the fear or manage the overwhelm? How did you cope with the people close to you who told you that you couldn’t/shouldn’t do that?

Did you envision what your life would be like after the wedding, the graduation party, or the baby’s birth? How close was the reality? How did you handle the differences?

Use those planning and coping skills you’ve developed throughout your life to smooth your overseas move.

We’ll be talking more about this over the coming weeks and months.

How do you plan in order to minimize the risk of a big change? Share your strategies in the comments section below.

More Fun with WordPress Plugins

WordPress logo

In our last installment of Blogging for Expats, we looked at plugins. Plugins can decorate your blog, and provide additional functionality beyond what your theme offers.

Remember, though, just as you should never download free themes from anywhere except WordPress.org, you should never get free plugins from any other source either.

I’m going to talk exclusively about free plugins here. Not every blog needs the same ones, but these are some basic plugins that will enhance most themes and that most of you can use when you first start your blog.

To locate, download and install plugins, simply click on the “add new” link in the plugins menu on your WordPress Dashboard. Type in your search term, which is the actual name of the plugin if you know it. If not, describe what you want it to do.

Once you locate the plugin you want, just click “install now” and follow the prompts.

Decorate Your Blog

Dynamic Content Gallery

The Dynamic Content Gallery is one of my favorite plugins. That little gizmo provides the eye candy on the home page of Future Expats Forum, namely the slider at the top.

here's what the Dynamic Content Gallery looks like
When you first set it up, you tell it how you want it to pull in images and text and it does the rest automatically. You can use it, as I do, on the homepage to draw attention to certain articles, or you can use it to display photos or artwork as part of a portfolio or gallery display on its own page.

Add More Functionality

WordPress Related Posts

Often you’ll see a listing of related posts at the bottom of a blog article. Did you ever wonder how that gets there? Sure, you could figure out what posts you want to feature and type in the information manually, but it’s much faster and easier to use the WordPress Related Posts plugin.

You set the number of related posts to display. Here’s what it looks like on this site.

screenshot of related posts

Search Engine Optimization

Search engines can send a lot of traffic to your blog — if they can find you. Plugins like the All in One SEO Pack make SEO (search engine optimization) a whole lot easier.

Speed Up Your Blog

Nothing spells lost eyeballs more than a site that’s too slow. As your blog holds more and more content, it slows down. Plugins like W3 Cache or WordPress Super Cache help speed up load times and reduce the demand on the server.

Social Media Plugins

More and more traffic comes from social media sharing rather than search, so choose some plugins that will make it easy for your readers to “like” and share posts. Here are a few of my favorites.

TweetMeme

Make it easy to retweet with the TweetMeme button. If your reader has a Twitter account, they can share your post with a simple click of the button.

Facebook “Like” Button

There are several good plugins to display the Facebook “like” button on your blog and to integrate your blog with your Facebook Page.

Sexy Bookmarks

Sexy Bookmarks is another excellent social sharing plugin. Unlike the two plugins above which are Twitter/Facebook specific, this displays one-click sharing buttons for an extensive menu of social sites. I’m not currently using this plugin here, although I did for a while and may again. Here’s what it looks like when you hover your mouse over the Facebook link (see how it pops up to be more visible?).

a screen shot of the Sexy Bookmarks plugin

There are lots more plugins available — over 14,500 available from WordPress.org — so we haven’t even scratched the surface here.

One word of caution before you start installing plugins with wild abandon: because they are open source, sometimes plugins have a hard time getting along with each other. Before you install or change a plugin, back up your blog! That way you can always revert to a working version in case of a plugin conflict.

You can find the previous 6 installments of Blogging for Expats here.

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